Solo-Sex, Consent & Non-Monogamy: A Sexy Chat Ft. Ruby Rare
In this episode, we speak to sex educator Ruby Rare; who is on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about sex. We speak about navigating consent in polyamorous relationships, the power of unlearning the shame around solo sex, and Ruby’s new book; Sex Ed: A Belated Guide for Adults. Ruby shares vulnerable moments in her own journey to sex-positivity.
Ruby Rare is a sex educator, artist, and body-positive champion. She’s on a mission to engage people of all ages in positive conversations about their pleasure. Her work is influenced by her experiences as a queer, non-monogamous, dual-heritage woman. Until recently, Ruby worked at Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity for young people, where she managed a National period equality project. She facilitates events for adult audiences about non-monogamy, porn, sex toys, pleasure, and has spoken at Women of the World, Summerhouse Festival and on BBC4’s Woman’s Hour, and has been featured in Time Out, Huffington Post, MTV, and Pink News.
Resources and Links
- Sex Ed: A Belated Guide for Adults – Check out Ruby’s book!
- Ruby Rare – Find Ruby on Instagram.
- Sofie Birkin – check out the illustrators insta!
Mentioned in Episode
- Brook – Free & Confidential sexual health and wellbeing support for under 25s.
- Lustery – Homemade Porn